Wednesday, September 15, 2004

Family Photo of the John K Moffat Family, about 1930.


John K Moffat family, Front row: Father John K., Brother Ivan, and Mother Bertha. Rear row: Sister Mariel, Brother John J., Brother Mervil, and Oscar. Picture date to be determined, but believe it to be around 1930.
photo from Moffat Family Album; click on photo to enlarge

Dad's service tomorrow, Thursday, 10:30am


Lost Creek United Methodist Church, 8002 S Washington St., Stillwater, OK. is the site for Dad's funeral Thursday, 10:30am. There will be a dinner for friends and family following the service. The location is 6 miles south of Stillwater on highway 177 and 1 mile west on 80th street, or 6 miles south on Western from highway 51 and 1 mile east..... or from the south..... 3 miles north on Western from Highway 33 and one mile east... or 3 miles north of highway 33 on highway 177 and one mile west.
Lost Creek United Methodist Church webpage

photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Also, more details at Strode's Funeral Home site... and some family pics there as well.

Obit from Stillwater NewsPress.. the picture below ran with it.

Oscar Lee Moffat
Payne County Cattleman, Oscar Lee Moffat, 85, of Perkins, died Monday, Sept. 13, 2004, in Stillwater Medical Center.

Services are Thursday at 10:30 a.m. at Lost Creek United Methodist Church. Pastor Max Rudd will officiate. Interment is in Sunset Memorial Gardens, Stillwater. Strode Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

He was born on a farm near Piedmont on Oct. 13, 1918 to John K. Moffat and Bertha Isabel Nelson. He married Elinore Mae Siegrist in Mt. Zion Country Church, El Reno, on March 14, 1942.

Moffat attended Racine Country School and attended El Reno High School. After the death of his father, he quit school to help his mother on the farm. After his marriage, they purchased a neighbor’s LACase tractor and plow for $800 and started their dairying that lasted 45 years. They began milking 23 cows by hand in Canadian County, then bucket milkers, then pipeline milkers in Payne County. They farmed several places in Canadian County and then moved all livestock, machinery, household and family to a farm six miles south of Stillwater in September of 1960.

The family joined Lost Creek United Methodist Church and later joined Perkins First Baptist Church. They had two children: Stanley, born in El Reno and Marilyn, born in Okarche. In 1962, they moved to a farm on Highway 33, west of Perkins, after building a dairy barn. He delivered the first load of wheat in the county to Ahrberg’s Elevator in 1962.

In 1972, he received the Stillwater NewsPress Top Stockman Award, 1995 Stillwater Chamber of Commerce Farm Family of the Year Award and 2001 Payne County Soil Conservation Award.

He always raised wheat and milked cows. He took trips with his family, churches and co-ops. He ended his dairy career in 1987.

He continued to farm with Angus cattle. His grandparents came from near Moffat, Scotland. He was known by his great-grandson, Austyn, as “Grandpa Music” because he loved to listen to gospel and bluegrass music.

He belonged to Payne County Cattlemen’s Association, Oklahoma Cattlemen’s Association, Cimarron Valley Co-op and was a Life Member of the American Angus Association.

He was predeceased by his father; mother; sister, Mariel Liebscher; brother, Mervil; three nephews and one niece.

He is survived by his wife; one son, Stanley Moffat and wife, Ann, of Stillwater; one daughter, Marilyn Moffat, also of Stillwater; four grandchildren, Phillip Moffat and wife, Tammy, Heather Blankinship and husband, Paul, and Jacob Moffat, all of Stillwater and Jonathan Moffat and wife, Randi, of Roff; two great-grandchildren, Austyn Lee Moffat and Andrew Blankinship, both of Stillwater; two brothers, John J. Moffat, of Lexington and Ivan Moffat and wife, Freda, of El Reno and one sister-in-law, Fannie Moffat, of El Reno.

Memorials may be made to the American Heart Association, Oklahoma Affiliate, 3545 N.W. 58th St., #400C, OKC, OK 73112 or American Diabetes Association, 6600 S. Yale #1310, Tulsa, OK 74136.

Condolences may be e-mailed to the family at http://www.strodefh.com/.

Monday, September 13, 2004

Service for Dad will be....

The service for Dad will be at Lost Creek United Methodist Church, Stillwater, OK with Rev. Max Rudd. Strode Funeral Home in Stillwater, OK. is in charge of arrangements and burial will be at Sunset Memorial Gardens in Stillwater, OK.
It will be at 10:30am this coming Thursday Morning, with a family dinner at the church following the service and all are invited to attend. The grandson's and Dennis Henry and Bruce Fields will be pallbears.

All I know for now. Many thanks for the prayers, flowers, etc.. God Bless you All!!

Family condolences may also be left online at: Strode Funeral Home

We will print the obit a bit later today. Dad was most honored as Payne County Cattleman of the Year... and his obit starts... Payne County Cattleman Oscar....

A wonderful memory was the trip he and I took three weeks ago... I loaded up Dad in his own 4 wheel drive Chevy truck... and headed to his kingdom... We traveled all the land that day.. all... went places chevy trucks are not supposed to go.. and one place we ended up was up high on the place across the road from his home.. up high on the ole sand hill... and dad set there and wept.... and said he had not been up there in years.. and how wonderful it was to see things he had not seen in years... and .............................. we both wept.... little did we know.. but maybe both suspected....

life is but fleeting memories..

thanks again to all, even those wonderfully nice NON family viewers who in a way are now part of OUR extended Oklahoma... family... God bless you all!!!

Our family "King" is gone.... but never forgotten.....


Family Christmas, 2003, with the family.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Payne County Cattleman Oscar Lee Moffat passed away in restful sleep at 3:20am today, September 13, 2004, one month before his next birthday. Son Stan was with him and reported that it was very peaceful, and that Oscar in fact knew he was "going home" to be with loved ones he had not seen in years.
He will be missed and loved forever.

Arrangements will be with Strode's Funeral Home, Stillwater, OK. Interment will be in Sunset Memorial Garden, South of Stillwater on Highway 177. Services will be set and more details later today on site. Family meets at Strodes at 10am. to make plans.

May God watch over and bless Elinore (Mom) through her time of need. She has been a real inspiration to the family and our corner stone through all this. And Dad and her were soulmates, not just husband and wife, or mom and dad, or grandpa and grandma, or great grandmother and father...... There is no doubt he is in Heaven and rejoicing and not having any pain!

Family condolences may also be left online at: Strode Funeral Home

Sunday, September 12, 2004

Morning report....


This shot ..... just looks like trouble~!! Austyn and his spiked hair... getting old Jake!! More pics later.. Took this when Jake and Ann got back from visiting Grandpa Moffat at hospital. Austyn stayed with me and we watched the movie "Toy Story 2". I think he was ready for Jake to play...
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge
Dad rested throughout the night. He was kind of "yucky" the nurses said this am. His white cell count was up, sodium was down, and several other things to indicate he was not doing very well. This report was given to the "Dr. In Charge" on weekends, and he said... not to change things yet. All I know for now.. have a great day...

Saturday, September 11, 2004

Dad holding his own...

as of this writing Dad is holding his own. He did eat a bit of each meal today. He is not in any pain, but is not doing well, and as of this afternoon, I know he has figured it out! Phillip, Jake, Mom, Marilyn, Heather and I were there this afternoon, along with Marilyn's friend, Peggy and her Mom, and Lewis Kinzie. Mom was going to eat supper with him and then head home. She went to the Doctor this morning with tugmmy ache, etc. and got some med's for her to take. She rested this afternoon and was then heading home to get to bed early this evening. Mk and Peggy were off to the OSU Tulsa ballgame in Stillwater, and Phil was heading home to keep Austyn so Tammy could head to town, and Heather, who had made one trip to Stillwater for med's for Andrew, was off to pick him up from Grandma Ann's who had been keeping him. I spent the afternoon so Mom could cat nap and Dad slept, or sort of!!
Jon and Randi are coming up tomorrow.. I think along with some other family coming up to see Dad...
All for now.. Go Pokes.. Go Sooners!!!

My In-Laws, Ann's Parents, Harold O and Mary Cathrene Shaklee on their 50th Wedding Anniversary Feb. 1st, 1992 in Jet, OK. at the Community Center. The room was packed with friends and family. Was a very very special day for all....
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

The happy kiddo's shoving it in on Wedding Day.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Phillip and his Mom, Sharon, on Phillip and Tammy's Wedding Day.... Phil lost his Mom this past February. Jake wrote a special song for Phillip and performed it at her funeral for all, and Stan served as a pallbear.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Tammy and Phillip on Wedding Day...
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Some pics from the past..... Jonathan, Jacob and Phil and Tammy on Wedding Day.... 3 09 1992.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Last night.... dad...

I stayed with Dad till about 4:30am last night. He had rattling in his lungs however they came in and sucked it out and gave him his meds and he then drifted off in to a good sleep. As he drifted off, he asked me to go home and rest in case he needed me back there again later. He asked me to give them my phone number and tell them if he said to them "call" they would know to call me and I was to come in and set. He figured this out on his own and told me his plan, so he is still "putting" things together. He did have a tough early part of the night with his lungs filling with fluid, however, they did suction it off and gave him latex and that helped a bunch. He is in good spirits and resting comfortably. Sometimes the weight of it all gets to him, but overall he is at peace. He did feel a lot better this am when I left. at this writing I have not talked with anyone to see how he is doing, but the call did not come during the night, and that is good! Please remember him in your prayers. And Mom and Marilyn too.
............... Phillip, Heather, Jonathan, and Jacob were there yesterday all at one time and all stood around his bed... and he told me last night... in tears... that it was great to have such wonderful loving grandchildren. He said he bet there were lots of grandparents who never see all their grandkids at one time!! So he knows, and cares, and loves........ He looks at the wall where we have a picture taken at Christmas 2003 blown up so he can see... and mumbles how it is amazing all those folks in it came from "me and your mother"! It is a wonderful comfort for him to be able to see it still.
All for now.. more later.. as day progresses.
Love to all... Stan

Friday, September 10, 2004

The dreaded 2am phone call.....

yes. The dreaded call came. We rushed to hospital, and at this hour Dad is still holding on. His lungs have only one spot in the left upper side that is working at all. The rest of them are filled with fluid. His system is basically shutting down. He is having a bit of trouble breathing, and in some pain as the medication they give him for it ruins out and they give him a bit more. Our goal is to keep him resting comfortably and to not be in any pain. We are following his wishes at this time. Marilyn, Mom, Ann and I were there from 2:30am on, and then Jake came up. Later, Phillip and Tammy and Heather came up to set with him. Jonathan is on his way up, and Marilyn, Mom and Ann are there now.
Today is Grandparents Day at Austyn's school, and he invited Ann and I up along with Grandma Moffat. Ann went and I came home to get a cat nap and go back up with Dad, in case I need to stay the night.
Just in case you all missed it, Heather and Paul are expecting their next kiddo, Heather found out. She had a picture of the baby, bout the size of a big peanut to show us. Awesome! Ann and I are very excited!! VERY! So there are two new additions coming to this end of the Moffat family .... Jon and Randi's in October and Heather and Paul's in May... OH BOY OH BOY....

life goes on....
Love to all... s

Thursday, September 09, 2004

Lightning.. and Jake's AM report on Dad...


I have been trying to photograph lightning.. and got this pic and a couple of others.. enjoy!
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Jake called and Dad slept peacefully last night. He spent the night and said he rested and slept all night. He reported that Dad said he felt a bit better this am, and that Marilyn, Phillip, and Phillip's barber, Richard, had come up and Richard had cut Dad's hair. This made him feel a bit better too. Will report more as I learn it.

**************Be sure and check out Randi and Jonathan's Blog for some new exciting news... that I "have to keep secret!"...

Wednesday, September 08, 2004

Austyn and Zoe!


A boy and his dog...... Austyn would throw the ball down the hallway and Zoe would get it and bring it back to him... and they played a bunch ... while Phillip and Tammy went in to see Grandpa.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Just a quick note... Dad is not doing very well. Jake is up there and will spend the night tonight with him. Phillip and Tammy were up this evening along with Mom and MK. I spent the morning with him and with Mom. Ann and Jake went by at noon to see him and set a bit.
He is wearing out...
later.. s

Dad not doing so good!


View of an awesome sunset at our home last spring.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Just wanted to share that Dad has taken a turn for the worst. He is really struggles to breath, and his breaths are very labored. He is really having a tough time. Mom and I contacted Hospice and visited with them this am about help with Dad. Not sure at this writing when we are moving from hospital or where, or how. He may go to the fourth floor into skilled nursing part of the fourth floor wing. Both of his doctors visited with me this am and assured me we are in the final days, or the short rows, as Dad would say. He is aware of it too, but is really struggling to just breath. Not sure what is ahead, but will post as we learn things. He is being a trooper, strong, yet loving... and always trying to do his best at what he is asked to do by the doctors and nurses. Mom and MK are holding up ok, or ... as well as can be expected. Mom needs your prayers, as does Dad.
Our best to you all.... OH BY THE WAY.... Heather has some exciting news for us too... but I promised not to tell yet till she says I can...................

Tuesday, September 07, 2004


Can one believe this is September and the grass is this green, trees have their leaves, etc.? Part of the herd enjoying some brunch on a wonderful day in September.
photo by stan click on photo to enlarge

Monday, September 06, 2004

CONGRATULATIONS TO....

SOONERS AND COWBOYS ON BOTH WINNING THEIR KICKOFF SEASON GAMES.. WAY TO GO.. MANY MORE WINS TO YA BOTH!!!!

Not much change in Dad's condition.

He is still on full oxygen, and the swelling in his arm has gone down a bit. He is setting up in a chair today, first time in a week. He does not want to eat much, however, he did eat his meat and pudding, and the grapes and cherry out of his mixed fruit, and a couple of bites of mashed potatoes. He did sip on his diet Dr. Pepper a bit and still drinks a good deal of water.
All I know for now... more later..
Stan
PS. He did talk about Heather seeing him other day and Jake and Ann coming by a couple of times and friends Ed and Ethel came by, along with Lewis Kinzie. He also talked about Jon and Randi's visit, too.