Monday, September 18, 2006


Jake came home for about 24 hours and we got to see his new toy... you know, big boys have big toys... haha... Jake is welding in the oil field chasing the big rigs and keeping them "turning to the right" for Bronco Drilling in the OK and TX panhandles and Southwest KS. There is a team of guys and they do quite well doing this but they give up a lot too, working 15 to 18 hour days and then having 2 to 4 hour drive times... equals very little sleep, but he is truly enjoying this. He bought this rig thru our bank on his own and will have it paid for in about a year. Needless to say, we are all very proud of him and how he is doing. He actually started for himself on Thursday and as of midnight Sat. night (3 days) had earned more money than I earned the first YEAR Ann and I were married! sigh... but that's what lifes all about right? haha...
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Poor Madison... she is so abused... haha... look at her face, not the milk dripping from her chin, but her bruise... and she looks half here... haha.... but you got ta feel the love... she is a hoot...!!!
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On Sunday, Andrew stopped by with his Mom and Dad and sis... he was fired up and messing around and as you an see on the left, he was fixin' to get a surprise on his back side from mom.... haha.. sorry Andrew, but this is a neat photo... haha...
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Sunday, September 17, 2006

Aunt Fannie in Baptist Hospital...

Aunt Fannie fell and cut her finger and ended up in Baptist Hospital over the weekend. She should be heading home today or tomorrow. They kept her to get her regulated again and going ok... Aunt Freda helped her get an ambulance to the El Reno Hospital and then to OKC... Uncle Ivan is doing ok, but a bit ragged from all the extra. He and Aunt Freda sure have a very busy life full of sharing and helping everyone they meet and family too...

Austyn came for a visit with Grandma and I yesterday. We enjoyed some of Grandma Moffat's AWESOME popcorn and a great, entertaining and SAD OU football game... Austyn is still missing one tooth...
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Thursday, September 14, 2006

Two Choices

Subject: Two Choices

What would you do? You make the choice! Don't look for a punch line; There isn't one!
Read it anyway. My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice?



At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children,the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe,that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child."Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,"Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not ex pecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field.. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, gri nning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in sof tly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!"

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward ho me.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching wer e on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.

That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world.

Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Mother's the word

Mother's the word

David Ward
Thursday November 25, 2004
The Guardian


Think about the word mother: does it make you burst into a fantastic smile as you think of the woman you will love with a passion for all eternity, she who guides your destiny towards freedom, liberty and perhaps tranquility?
If your answer is yes, you will have embraced your mum and the 10 English words that came top in a survey of favourites conducted by the British Council.
You may, on the other hand, reply: "Oi! I am flabbergasted that such a loquacious, hilarious and far from gorgeous explosion of nouns and adjectives should have been plucked from serendipity under the umbrella of so cosmopolitan and sophisticated an organisation." In which case, you will have clocked up 10 more words from the list of 70 gathered to mark the council's 70th birthday. You can use up eight more by pulling on your flip-flop, reaching for your coconut and riding with a giggle over the rainbow on your cute kangaroo to your hen night before you turn into a pumpkin.
The wordlist, which contains only one verb (cherish) which is not also a noun, emerged after the council asked more than 7,000 learners in 46 countries what they considered the most beautiful words in English language. Some 35,000 other people registered their favourites in an online poll run in the non-English speaking countries where the council operates.

"It's interesting that mother, the only word of the 70 that describes a direct relationship between people, came top of the poll," said Greg Selby, the council's communications and marketing officer, who managed the project.

The magnificent 70


1 Mother
2 Passion
3 Smile
4 Love
5 Eternity
6 Fantastic
7 Destiny
8 Freedom
9 Liberty
10 Tranquillity
11 Peace
12 Blossom
13 Sunshine
14 Sweetheart
15 Gorgeous
16 Cherish
17 Enthusiasm
18 Hope
19 Grace
20 Rainbow
21 Blue
22 Sunflower
23 Twinkle
24 Serendipity
25 Bliss
26 Lullaby
27 Sophisticated
28 Renaissance
29 Cute
30 Cosy
31 Butterfly
32 Galaxy
33 Hilarious
34 Moment
35 Extravaganza
36 Aqua
37 Sentiment
38 Cosmopolitan
39 Bubble
40 Pumpkin
41 Banana
42 Lollipop
43 If
44 Bumblebee
45 Giggle
46 Paradox
47 Delicacy
48 Peekaboo
49 Umbrella
50 Kangaroo
51 Flabbergasted
52 Hippopotamus
53 Gothic
54 Coconut
55 Smashing
56 Whoops
57 Tickle
58 Loquacious
59 Flip-flop
60 Smithereens
61 Oi
62 Gazebo
63 Hiccup
64 Hodgepodge
65 Shipshape
66 Explosion
67 Fuselage
68 Zing
69 Gum
70 Hen night

Monday, September 11, 2006

Honesty is telling the truth to ...

Honesty is telling the truth to ourselves and others. Integrity is living that truth. --Ken Blanchard

Courage is not the towering oak

Today's Quote

Courage is not the towering oak that sees storms come and go; it is the fragile blossom that opens in the snow.

-Alice Mackenzie Swaim

Sunday, September 10, 2006


Kaitlyn's big blue ball... she played with... and then it was time to head home, the Sooners won... and on the way home the Cowboys won, and later that night Ohio State University won.. what a great day ... haha... life is good, enjoy!
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She was wound up and her and Grandma had a great time playing...
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Do it how?
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Grandma, can you help me??
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Kaitlyn was practicing... for Dylan's arrival...
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Look of amazement in her eyes.. Daddy touches those things and the screen makes colors, huh??? haha.... geeze, what can I do???
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Jon asked Kaitlyn who it was on the computer screen and she answered with the above... and "Kaitlyn"
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Jon had made a few videos of Kaitlyn and in this one they were playing some of Jake's tunes and he had asked her who it was she was listening to, and she said Uncle Jake and she was telling us about it..
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Kaityln and her daddy.... enjoying the afternoon...
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ON SATURDAY.... Grandma and I went down to eat lunch with Kaitlyn and her folks. We ate at Bandannas in Ada... probably not spelled correctly... but anyway... a nice lunch, Kaitlyn was a joy, and we were about done, Randi added some excitement to the event by spilling a big ole glass of diet pop on Jon's lap.. haha..... yelp... haha... he didn't think it was funny at the time... haha.... but such is life.... then we headed to their home for a wonderful visit ... and some play time with Kaitlyn.. It was awesome to be able to visit with them... I made the trip ok going down but could hardly walk when we got home... age thingy...
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About as soon as we finished, the kiddos headed off to recess and we headed home.. our tummies full and our heads full of some great times with Austyn...
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A view of his classroom ... we were sitting by the wall in the back near the blue wall thingy...
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Austyn's locker at school....
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Austyn and his Grandma ate together and Austyn shared with us a card he made for his Grandpa Warren. It was a very special card for him.
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Austyn and his friend Carter....
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As you can see... we had a great lunch...
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then we headed to the lunchroom and gathered us some lunch...
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Mr. ToothMissing Austyn greeted us at the door to his class and welcomed us in...
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on Friday, Grandma Moffat and I and Great Grandma Moffat went to have lunch with Austyn at his school for Grandparents Day. We missed getting to eat with Andrew, so hopefully we will get to eat with him next year.
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Thursday, September 07, 2006

todays thought.....

Often the difference between a successful marriage and a mediocre one consists of leaving about three or four things a day unsaid.

-Harlan Miller

caught in the act... haha.... enjoy the day..
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breakfast time.... for the fat heifers...
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another view of a weed...
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just a weed....
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some amazing berries... haha...
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Amazing beauty.... and no, I did not spite on it.. haha...
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another view inside the flower....
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someone has a vistor....
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the entire weed.... really a site for sore eyes.. grass is so green and trees and then this white plant jumps at ya...
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Hairy berries... and delicate flowers...
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A very pretty weed....
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here are some Not So Starving heifers and babies....
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Sometimes their babys are cute too... haha..
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Even the has beens are neat...
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Upon closer examination... sunflowers are cool!!
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